Virtual couples therapy and sex therapy in Maryland and Pennsylvania
Your relationship deserves to go deep
Deeper discussions. Deeper trust. Deeper intimacy.
(And, if you want it, deeper sex!)
We don’t skim the surface around here. We dive into what’s really going on in your relationship, so you rise up feeling clearer, more fulfilled, and more connected than ever.
Love looks different for every couple
But it shouldn’t feel like this
You know your relationship better than anyone. That’s why you know something’s off, even if you can’t put a finger on it yet.
Maybe it feels like…
“We can’t stop fighting.”
“We don’t ever talk.”
“I’m sick of sex.”
“I can’t stop thinking about sex.”
“They don’t want me like they used to.”
“They only want my body.”
“I can’t forgive them.”
“I can’t forgive myself.”
“They want too much.”
“They don’t want enough.”
“I’m afraid I can’t perform.”
“I’m afraid I’m not enough.”
“We’re more like roommates than partners.”
“I miss who we used to be.”
Let’s get you feeling (and loving) better
Meet your virtual couples and sex therapist
Jan Carey, MSW, LCSW-C, LCSW, CST
I don’t settle for shallow. If you want a couples counselor who nods along for 50 minutes and sends you away with a communication worksheet, there are plenty of those to choose from.
But if you want a licensed clinical social worker and AASECT-certified sex therapist who actually goes deep — who digs underneath your symptoms, and surfaces the actual problems (and solutions) — you’re wading in the right waters.
Figuratively, of course. Licensed in Maryland and Pennsylvania, I see clients entirely by telehealth, so you can get specialized support from wherever you are in either state.
I specialize in two types of therapy
Spoiler: they often overlap
Virtual couples therapy
For simmering tension, deafening silence, or anything that’s come between you
Virtual sex therapy
For desire gaps, lack of pleasure, or a connection that's gone quiet
My clients often come to me with concerns like these
Can you relate?
Ready for a deeper connection with your partner?
It starts with deeper conversations
We don’t have to dive deep on day one. Let’s begin with a casual conversation about where you’re treading water, and whether I’m the right person to help you find solid ground.